A Great Fortune
While the food at the Chinese take-out restaurant we’ve been patronizing lately isn’t all that great, their fortune cookies are terrific. My fortune the other night:
Doing what you like is freedom. Liking what you do is happiness.
This bit of philosophy made me think of how very important it is to periodically reflect upon how happy you are with the work you do. Of course, we all have bad days but, overall, you should be able to say that you enjoy the work you do - that, yes, it makes you happy.
If you can’t, perhaps it is a good time to figure out why - and then to change the situation. Sometimes, you can negotiate for things that will increase your satisfaction, for example, a more challenging assignment or more resources to get the job done. Or, if the problem is deeper, perhaps it’s time to make a different employment decision…
The main thing to keep in mind is that your career satisfaction matters most to you - nobody else, except perhaps your mom, cares that much. Don’t let yourself down!
TAGS: career change, career goals, dealing with family expectations, Gratefulness, Leaving a bad boss or a job you hate, negotiation skills, personal brand building, personal development, ways to work healthy










I love that, Carol! How true. No one can ever take as good care of you as you can take care of yourself. Negotiating, finding your voice, and a healthy sense of entitlement (entitlement to happiness, wealth, etc.) are essential for living a rich life in all ways.
Comment by Dr. Lois Frankel — June 26, 2008 @ 10:49 am