Negotiation: Be Deliberate About the Process
This is the second post I wrote to help entrepreneurs- both the finalists in the Yahoo Seeds for Success Program as well as The Think Pink Line readers. :
In addition to the negotiation planning process I wrote about earlier, I also offered some suggestions to the Seeds For Success finalists about negotiation process. Among them:
- Create your business’s “standard” way of doing things and use that as a way to kick off a negotiation. For example, a “Usual Terms and Conditions” one-pager that you can use to describe the ways you do business. This is not to say that you can’t change any or all of these but it can make opening the conversation easier and can keep you on track so that you remember to bring up the things that are important for you to discuss.
- Choose the method you’ll use to negotiate. Think about the people with whom you will be negotiating and plan a strategy. For example, one of the business owners is planning a trip to China to meet her suppliers in person later this year. While email has had to suffice in the meantime, she wants to build the relationship by spending some time fact to face.
- Strike the business deal first, then ask your attorney to document it, advising you of the legal issues you should consider. Don’t delegate negotiating the business part of things to your lawyer - that’s not her expertise.
Paying attention to the negotiation process won’t solve all the issues that you’ll be negotiating about, but my experience is that it can certainly help!
This post also appeared on Shine, Yahoo’s new destination site for women.
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This is so important, Carol. Women entrepreneurs must see themselves as business people. They must get things in writing, outline the terms and conditions, and be open to making changes that will appeal to the client without giving away the shop. I know once I started doing this in my own practice I was able to better negotiate because it was factual, not based on feelings.
Comment by Dr. Lois Frankel — August 28, 2008 @ 11:58 pm