Beware of BUI: Buying Under the Influence
There was a great article in the Los Angeles Times, Shopping While Drinking: Retail Happy Hour. I hadn’t realized how common it had become for women — particularly single, child-free women — to pour a glass of wine and shop online. I’m sure I’m guilty of a few BUI’s, but I don’t make a habit of it and I don’t recommend you do it too often either. As Donna Summer told us way back when, we work “hard for the money.” Rather than fritter away your hard-earned dollars here are a few tips for enjoying the fruits of your labors — now and in retirement.
- When you finish working on your home computer turn it off. You’re less likely to power it up again just to online shop.
- Give yourself a monthly online shopping budget. Of course this is from money left after you’ve funded your retirement and, as Liz Weston calls it, FU (forget you) accounts.
- If you’re going to shop online, look for coupons and promo codes. You’ve probably noticed these when you check out and wondered how to get them. Go to www.bradsdeals.com and you’ll find a link for coupons to some popular shopping sites. I found a $25 off coupon for McCormick and Schmick that didn’t require you to sit through a pitch for a vacation timeshare.
- Do your online shopping before you pour that drink. Alcohol negatively impacts perception and self-control — a lethal combination for BUI.
- If, like some of the women in the article, you find packages arriving at your home that you don’t remember ordering because you had one drink too many, you may have a drinking problem and shouldn’t be BUI at all. Alcoholics Anonymous can help. Similarly, there are 12 step groups for compulsive spenders and shoppers that you can learn more about online.
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